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Write to me at the following addresses:
Emily Jane Buehler
P.O. Box 1285
Hillsborough NC 27278
Note, I receive about 20 AI-generated emails each week from “readers” and “authors” who praise my books and “just want to connect.” I will try very hard to reply to the real messages, but the AI ones become more and more realistic. If I miss your email, please try again!
“Jane” is the pen name I use for my romance writing. You can learn more about my other pursuits at emilybuehler.com.
The mailing list on this website is for information about my romance writing. Subscribe for occasional inner thoughts and writing updates.
Find me on Bluesky: @ephemerily
Honestly, I’m really just on Bluesky. But here are some other accounts that I don’t use much:
Twitter/X (no longer active): @ephemerily
Mastodon (not active, not sure this will take off for me): @
I started a book club for sharing cozy fantasy romance novels. It’s a private group on Facebook. As of summer 2026, I’m somewhat giving up on it, partly because I’m not feeling much like doing anything that supports Big Tech. You can ask to join if you want to read old posts, but it might be a while before I see the request. (All the books should be on my lists a Goodreads and Bookshop, below.) https://www.facebook.com/groups/518347373620319
My author page on Facebook (not active at all):
https://www.facebook.com/Jane-Buehler-107338764179116/
Here are links to my author profiles on various platforms:
On Goodreads:
https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1439262.Emily_Jane_Buehler
On The StoryGraph (a less interactive but super nice Goodreads alternative):
https://app.thestorygraph.com/profile/ephemerily
On LibraryThing (honestly, this one might be my favorite; the site looks dated but it’s very well run):
https://www.librarything.com/profile/JaneBuehler
On BookBub:
https://www.bookbub.com/authors/jane-buehler
On BookSirens:
https://booksirens.com/author/M5X8WH6/MNFCMR7
On BingeBooks:
https://bingebooks.com/author/jane-buehler
On Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/author/janebuehler
On Books2Read:
https://books2read.com/ap/nzDmJo/Jane-Buehler
On TrackBear (writing challenges for 2024 onward):
https://trackbear.app/@ephemerily
On NaNoWriMo (writing challenges from 2014–2023): RIP (link to a screenshot of my profile)
Here are some links to cozy fantasy romance recommendations:
I made this Cozy Fantasy Romance list at Bookshop.org to track books that meet my definition of the term. They’re set in a fantasy world, they have a central romance, they have little to no violence, and they are not stressful to read:
https://bookshop.org/lists/cozy-fantasy-romance-aka-romantasy
You can also see them on Goodreads, along with some “almost cozy” books. I rate books only when I can give 4–5 stars, and sometimes I write reviews:
https://www.goodreads.com/review/list/71614444-emily-buehler?shelf=cozy-fantasy-romance
And here’s some press:
I’m a guest on a Holiday Wishes episode of Smart Podcast Trashy Books (December 2025)
Sarah Wendell interviews me on Smart Podcast Trashy Books, 2.0 (March 2025)
My entrepreneur profile (!) in a local magazine (pp. 24–27, 40–41, 52–53; May 2024)
My presentation about my author experience for Romance Awareness Month (August 2022)
Sarah Wendell interviews me on Smart Podcast Trashy Books (March 2022)
Angie McMann interviews me about The Village Maid (February 2022)
Angie McMann interviews me about The Forest Bride (December 2020)